How to Approach Beautiful Women - Introduction

Approaching a beautiful woman is an issue every man had to deal with in his life. Although some of us never did approach a beautiful woman, rather they were approached; we all thought about it and some of us even thought about that a lot. Some people still have issues with that. I myself had a small weakness just the moment before I approached a girl, but once I got near her that would change. At some point I asked myself am I really that blessed. The answer I found after a few years was no, I wasn’t blessed; there are only a few that are. What I had that other guys didn’t was confidence.

There are people out there that are born with the ability to attract women, but they are really rare. What girls fall for and what they like in a man is confidence. I know you hear that a lot, but that is because it is the truth. No woman wants a wimpy guy that isn’t sure of himself, while on the other hand girls will love and follow a guy that shows confidence in all aspects of his life.

I guess most of those fears derive from our high school experience. We used to see girls going for the tough and popular guys that used to beat on the weaker guys. But guys, we are not in high school anymore! We are now in the real world, the guys that paved their way through life with muscles like they did in high school faded away. Women don’t like those guys anymore, and there is a simple explanation behind that, they have experienced what those guys have to offer. Although that might have been enough for them back in high school, it isn’t anymore. Those same girls are now older, more mature and most of them know what they want. And they don’t want a child, they want a serious guy that shows confidence but respects them and cares for them.

Don’t jump the conclusion; I’m not saying you should be an ultra sensitive guy, woman love mysterious man. They love the ones they can’t understand, but not every one of us is like that. To approach and make a beautiful woman take interest in you, you need to understand a few things about them. The basics behind it all are that beautiful women are used to getting approached by guys with a lot of confidence, most of them being beautiful themselves. But a woman tends to get bored with those kinds of guys, you know that kind. Self absorbed, looking in the mirror most of the time, those guys don’t think too highly of women, and women can tell, they can sense that. What it all comes down to, those guys don’t provide the women with what they need on an emotional level. And when girls grow up and become women they need to feel loved.

Most of you will be confused if I said that some of the loneliest women on earth are the most beautiful ones. You know why? Because an average guy is too scared to approach them and ask them out! Let me end this introduction by saying that no woman is out of your league. The only ones that are out of your league are the ones you decide that they are out of your league!

Stay tuned for my future blogs on this subject. To explain a little, the reason why I am writing this is because I have a brother and a best friend that never did understand how I managed to get the most beautiful women, while I may not look so hot. I have a beautiful girlfriend for over two years now, and I love her, the only way I can explain to them how I did that is by taking them step by step through my experiences. So while I wanted to explain to them I might as well share this with everybody, maybe it can help someone.